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Flip-Flopping Attempts To Top

(original post 2/12/10)

Q: Dear Mistress Didi, I recently followed a conversation You had on Twitter with a loser who tried to bait You into an argument. I enjoyed that You did not take the bait and turned the whole situation around on him! You even told him that he failed the last time he tried to argue with You! This was not the first time that I have seen You handle negative people. There always seems to be someone who tries to offend You and You don’t let them and put them in their place. How do You do it?

I always find it tedious that the same cycle of “mediocrity of personality” spawns from generation to generation and the perpetrators NEVER evolve. I cannot understand why or how people choose to remain “limited” as individuals, offering no compliment to society at large, and have no impetus to evolve into something – someone better.

No matter how many times, how many ways these “sad ones” try to put others down in a vain attempt to pretend that they are somehow raising themselves up, they will not EVER have any real achievement. It is only in their small minds that such distasteful efforts could possibly make them “superior” to the person they attempted to “top” in a disrespectful way. This ridiculous notion has no basis in any kind of reality and the sad ones are always left empty and wanting in their lives.

The truth is that such behavior is instigated by their sense of inferiority, spurred by jealousy of a person who is comfortable in Her or His own being, like I am. Instead of being inspired, the sad ones face their truthful fears that they are not “good enough” and become agitated by what they see lacking in themselves effortlessly emanating from Me.

The first thing such an autophobic (autophobia: an extreme dislike of oneself, or being angry at oneself) person does is deny their true feelings and choose to find fault with you in order to avoid any responsibility for recognizing that they can only ever walk in the shadows of where you shine. So, they attempt to “rain on your parade,” to dim your Light. This pathetic cycle leads to continued unhappiness via self-delusion and the ultimate in being unfulfilled.

Boringly, I get a lot of these sad ones trying with desperation to use Me for their follies. Instead of being grateful for all of the many gifts I give to The Community, they seek to find fault with Me and My works – of course, having nothing of value of their own to offer anywhere. I always make these sad ones useful by (1) setting them up to be examples for My Workshops and (2) toying with them for sport – after all, I always say, if you put your ass out there, you want to be spanked! My Motto: Don’t start none, won’t be none; I finish it.

What the sad ones do not understand is their attempts to goad Me into their games can only work on someone who is not comfortable with Herself; who does not love, honor, and respect Herself; and who questions her REALITY. This most certainly is not Me. I also have no emotional attachment to what they say or try to do while attempting to have their fantasies be My Reality. I pity them, but recognize how they can be of service to The Whole and take advantage of the only gifts they have to give ~ allowing them to be of service, which is the Highest Good.

My actions give them the opportunity to learn and grow. Whether they take that opportunity or not is all about their choices. If I am feeling particularly generous, I will refer them to self-esteem building techniques.

I am ever the Giving Goddess, even when creatures attempt to offend Me. ***

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Considering New submissives & a 24/7 (live-in)

It has been a very long time since I have had the pleasure of a submissive worthy of living in My home with Me. Any person who would even consider applying should understand that you must have skills, stable employment, fit My requirements, and be a true submissive. After all, I have 2 bedrooms in Manhattan, 2 blocks from the subway, with amazing heat and crazy neighbors who are a bit afraid of Me (just the way I like it!).

No, you will not have any kind of a free ride; you will work to keep Me and My household comfortable and invest in your own future as well.

I have taken the time to tell people how to enjoy your time with Me, so READ MY WEBSITE, pay close attention to What Is Expected and potential submissives must read My Requirements for Service. I made it simple for fun and pleasure to occur. Why people choose to be so lazy and stupid to just look at My photos, ignore the words, and think they are going to dictate things in MY DOMAIN is why they are punished. I much prefer to enjoy you than to punish you. But either way, I win.

Begin your application here and follow instructions carefully AND I want an email with details on what you have to offer and why you desire to serve ME, in particular. If any part of My application requirements are not fulfilled, I will ignore you completely. Notice that I said I will consider accepting a 24/7; not that I will.

I will make special allowances for military personnel who wish to apply for service to Me. I believe that those who have or are in the Armed Forces deserve an exemplary Domme to serve. I have been made aware that occasionally, there are constraints to one's ability to serve a Domme, so I am willing to work with a truly submissive veteran to create a wonderful D/s relationship. I love a sub in (or out) of uniform! Note: Although I love you all, I have a passion for Marines and Special Forces operatives...

I have little patience and it has been sorely tested during the past year by people who are so busy having a good time in My presence that they do not pay attention or follow instructions to achieve what they desire and do what is necessary to continue to enjoy being in My presence. Therefore, they get on My nerves, they foolishly mistake My kindness for weakness, and My time could be better spent. This is unacceptable, and disrespectful ~ your feelings will get hurt, and it will be your own fault. DO THE RESEARCH.

REMEMBER: follow instructions carefully.

Happy New Year! We'll be just fine in 2009!

So, the world is a mess. For some reason, there is always some kind of conflict in the "Middle East" at Christmas time. The economy is a world-wide horror created by the greed of the usual suspects and their spawn. Disease, famine, atrocities, etc. are running rampant and people are complaining about what they got for the holidays. This is a very grim picture indeed.

However, I've still got My Obamatude ~ feelings of hope faith in this planet because people all over the globe came together for the second time in the past decade. The first time was to march against the worst American president choosing to force the USA and other countries into an unjust, vengeance war. Recently, the world was celebrating the fact that for the first time since Abraham Lincoln (and I'm not a fan of the propaganda taught about him), the USA has a president who actually is one of The People and who has a clue about what is really going on in the world. When have you seen other countries celebrate a presidential election in a country that was not their own and on grander scales than the country that had the election?

People want to have better, be better, do better, and make this a better planet. Good prevails over evil, although evil works quickly to destroy all that is good in the world.

There will always be those who actually believe they are better because of their skin color, their barbarian-war history to feign superiority, their religious intolerance to make everyone else unloved by the One God they claim to believe in, or something incredibly stupid along those lines. But it appears that these people are dying out and the sooner the better.

I believe that We are capable of great things beyond Our own imaginings. We must believe in the goodness that exists in all people, even those who would consider themselves Our enemies. By example, We have the power to show others how to live from the best inside of Ourselves. There will always be predictable disappointments, but as My Amazing Grandmother always said, "consider the source" and know that these people are limited by their fear = False Experiences Appearing Real. Forgive them and categorize them into the "not special" section of your life. Understand that when you deal with them in the future, you will remember their limitations and not set yourself up to be disappointed by them. Should they evolve, that will be your pleasure as well as theirs. Should they choose to remain limited, you have the power to control how their failings will show up in your life.

That being said, times ahead may be tough, but the world is not designed to be a vacuum; it is designed to be a support system ~ use it that way. Reach out to your communities with an offering before you reach out with a request. That's how good things happen. When people know that you must know how to give in order to receive and, as My fabulous Aunt Diane says, "You can't receive with a closed fist."

This is a wonderful time We are living in. It is a time of hope, of possibility, and of empowerment, if We are all willing to give even a little of Ourselves. Many people do not know what they can do to contribute to their communities. Donate instead of throwing things in the garbage. Ever hear the expression, "one man's garbage is another man's treasure"? Just because that sweater has a hole does not mean that someone who needs it does not have the knowledge of how to mend that hole. Volunteer to read to seniors or children at community centers. Volunteer to help at your local animal shelter and play with some animals who are in distress. Smile at people as you pass them on the street; that may be the only smile someone receives that day. Say "thank you," "please," and "excuse me". It's the little things that add up to greatness.

I recognize that I am great; otherwise people would not have tried to steal My identity, My work, ride on My reputation, and all of the other annoying things I described in The 12 Duhs of Christmas which actually occurred in My recent past. One of the things I feel makes Me great is My practice of looking for the beauty and greatness in others and supporting them in it. More times than not, people appreciate Me for this and are able to pass on the support to others and so on and so on.

I support you in recognizing and cultivating your greatness. We are going to be just fine in 2009.

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